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Do any of you have experience dating someone so much older? The oldest I've dated was still mid to late 20's, but I have a couple friends in their 30s I can connect with really well. I went on a date with a 33 year old last night who I've known for a short time, and things went really well. Is it safe to get my hopes up, or is the age gap too big? Not sure if that's important but I figured I'd add it. Back when I was 21, I dated a woman who was We dated for about a 8 months to a year, until she found a guy she wanted to marry. Not the ending I expected! That's interesting though, it seems like you guys stayed friends so that's good.
Were you aware she wasn't planning on a serious future with you? It's not insurmountable, but people have to adjust for different phases of life, dating expectations, lifestyles, and maturity levels. Each one adds a layer of difficulty to a process that can already be tricky. For what it's worth, I'm 33, and it would take some special woman for me to consider a long-term relationship with a year old. If it's a fling or a fuck, sure. My girlfriend is a sheltered 25 and her lack of perspective can be pretty annoying at times. Thanks for replying.
I'll definitely keep this perspective in mind, haha. I don't want to just be a "fling or fuck" lol.
Im with a guy 15 years older. It is amazing, we're so happy everyday. We share the same outlook on life and have many opinions and interests in common.
We also talk about anything and everything. And we both like to fart a lot. You're Have you even finished school yet? What are your future plans? How old are your friends?
How old are their boyfriends? Do you even know what you're doing with your life? Do you even know who you are? The thing is 33 year olds life is completely different than a 21 year olds life. But you have no idea what his life is day to day. My parents are 11 years apart with my mom being older, and my best friend and her boyfriend are almost ten years apart with her boyfriend being older.
It doesn't matter if you guys are able to connect with each other in a meaningful way. If you're happy who gives a fuck what a bunch of strangers on the internet think. Who cares what people IRL think? If they're happy together and it works, that's all that matters.
Female, so not entirely sure I'm what you're looking for but I dated a 34 year old at the age of For the first couple weeks everything was great. I met him in a uni class he was doing a second degree and had a full time job. He also looked I felt like he was trying to live vicariously through me to be a 21 year old again, and so I let that romance fizzle out.
I'm happy with my broke-assed boyfriend right now who's only 4 years older than I am, but sometimes we still have maturity differences.
I don't think it's totally impossible to have it work out, but in order to have it work you both need to talk about the age gap specifically. Since you will likely have to compromise you being mature for your age, and him being slightly immature for his age, or at least understanding where you're coming fromsince there's not a large chance you can just "grow up 12 years" just to match his maturity. Something good for you to watch would be his relationship with his child's mother, and figure out if he's the kind of person you want to be with that way.
For example does he complain about her, or is he cooperative in their raising even though they aren't together? That last paragraph is good advice also, thank you so much for your reply! Found the internet! I'm a 21 year old female who just went on a date with a 33 year old male. What are your experiences dating with such an age gap? Sort by: best. I went to their wedding. Continue this thread. Did the guy know?
That must have been awkward. Actual Poster. What is it like? Could you elaborate? As long as it works for you, go for it. Sup Bud? My parents have an 18 yr gap My friends parents have a 20yr gap They're both happily married It can work. Do you live in Alabama? It's time to stop. Created Aug 30, Top posts august 20th Top posts of august, Top posts Back to Top.21 year old woman dating 31 year old man
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